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“We’ve all been aware of the five senses since childhood, but so often they’re not used to their full potential in fiction. We all tend to include the easy and obvious ones — what your character sees and touches. But what about what your characters hear? Or more importantly, how does what they hear make them feel, react, or take action?”
Joelle Anthony

Adding sound to create emotion — an intriguing idea, isn’t it? Joelle Anthony is the author of several young adult novels and teaches writng. Helpful advice on tapping the potential of sound in storytelling:

Listen to the sounds of your world: As a first step, sit quietly for a few minutes and take in the sounds around you. If you do this attentively, you’re likely to hear layers of sound ebbing and flowing: A refrigerator whirring nearby, a plane engine rumbling, birds singing, cars passing.

Consider the emotional effect of sound: Use sound to enrich your characters’ world.” Consider a lawnmower: Its rumbling sound might conjure up lazy summer days and family barbecues — all happy memories — for one person, but for someone else, hearing one rev up might be irritating and intrusive.

Practice adding auditory elements to your stories: In order to propel your story forward,” here’s a quick exercise to jump start your ability to add emotion-enhancing sound elements to your writing: 

1) Start by choosing an emotion: joy, sorrow, anger, etc. 

2) Once you’ve selected one, close your eyes and conjure up all the sounds that make you feel that emotion. When you’ve done this, jot them down. Joy, for example, might call to mind birds singing in the morning, a crackling fire, a baby’s laughter.

3) Choose one sound and write a paragraph describing what it sounds like, and how it makes you feel emotionally and physically. Joelle gave the example of the beep, beep of an alarm clock. Here’s part of what she wrote: “Oh, my God! That stupid alarm! AGAIN! Not mine, but my brother’s. Every friggin’ morning his alarm goes off, usually until I scream through my bedroom wall at him…” And she added, “Just writing this has caused my stomach to tense up and my breath to quicken, and it’s been thirty years since the last time this happened!” The message? Sounds can invoke intense, even violent, reactions.

4) Now, do this exercise for each of your characters. “Find a sound they love, hate, makes them happy, etc. and work those sounds into your stories, using emotions to show your readers more about your characters and to make them dimensional people everyone cares about.” Great advice — write on!

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The role of a writer is not to say what we can all say, but what
we are unable to say.”
Anais Nin

Finding our voice is all about finding the courage to write dangerously, to speak out from our hearts onto the page. Some quotes about voice to inspire you:

“And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise it. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.”
Sylvia Plath

“Quiet people have the loudest minds.”
Stephen Hawking

“We have to continually be jumping off cliffs and developing wings on the
way down.”
Kurt Vonnegut

“Write what disturbs you, what you fear, what you have not been willing to speak out about. Be willing to split open.”
Natalie Goldberg

“Blame it or praise it, there is no denying the wild horse in us.”
Virginia Woolf

“If you hid your ignorance, no one will hit you and you’ll never learn.”
Ray Bradbury

“I write entirely to find out what I’m thinking, what I’m looking at, what
I see and what it means. What I want and what I fear.”
Joan Didion

“If I waited for perfection, I would never write a word.”
Margaret Atwood

“Nothing haunts us like the things we don’t say.”
Mitch Albom

“Before you learn to write well, to trust yourself as a writer, you have to learn to be patient in the presence of your own thoughts.
Verilyn Klinkenborg

“If it’s still in your mind, it is worth taking the risk.”
Paulo Coelho

I hope some of these words of wisdom give your own words wings today. Write on!

We’ve all been there: Hit those moments in our writing when we feel confused and upended, agitated and frustrated. When moments like this happen, we can plunge into them with both feet and find ourselves in hot water creatively — unable to find our way out of the darkness into the light because we’re feeling too stressed and negative. 

Or, we can choose the other path — the one that sets us on the road back to where we want to be: the path of peace. How can we shift from agitation and confusion to being at peace with where we are in the moment? Here are a few approaches I’ve found helpful:

Note where you are: Name the feelings you’re experiencing — confusion, agitation, frustration — whatever they are. But instead of identifying with them, create a little distance by saying to yourself, “Agitation is being known,” or “Ah, agitation is like this.”

Allow yourself to be there: What you resist persists. Instead of resisting where you are, bring a spirit of relaxed awareness to your feelings of confusion or frustration. See them as clouds, not bricks: Don’t let them weigh you down, let them float through you.

Trust yourself: Have faith in your process and your efforts. Take a few deep breaths, relax, and just rest in the awareness that the answer you need is waiting for you. Gently say to yourself, “It will come to me” — and then just wait and listen. See what silence brings you.

Play around: Sometimes the best way to loosen things up is to play. Instead of feeling angsty, have some fun! Doodle or fill in the page of one of those intricate coloring books. Or free write—just sit and let words pour out of you without worrying about whether they have any connection to the project you’re working on. Keep going for fifteen minutes without stopping and see what you’ve come up with. Chances are there will be a kernel of something you can use. 

Getting stuck happens to all of us. Being at peace with that reality can be one of the least stressful ways to get unstuck. How about you? any techniques you use to calm and refocus yourself? I’d love to hear about them. Write on!

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Kahlil Gibran said that “work is love made visible,” surely a beautiful thought to take with us as we enjoy this Labor Day weekend. And to help us make the most of each day’s labor, let’s keep in mind Kahlil’s powerful poem “On Work,” which I quote in part here:

On Work
Kahlil Gibran

“You work that you may keep pace with the earth and the soul of the earth.
For to be idle is to become a stranger unto the seasons,
and to step out of life’s procession, that marches in majesty and
proud submission towards the infinite.

When you work you are a flute through whose heart the whispering of the hours
turns to music.
Which of you would be a reed, dumb and silent, when all else sings together in unison?

Always you have been told that work is a curse and labour a misfortune.
But I say to you that when you work you fulfil a part of earth’s furthest dream, assigned to you when that dream was born,
And in keeping yourself with labour you are in truth loving life,
And to love life through labour is to be intimate with life’s inmost secret…”

Wishing you and yours a peaceful, fruitful Labor Day.

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“Every day is a good day” — words of wisdom from Dogen, a 13th century Zen Buddhist master worth pondering. Sometimes, it can be hard to feel this way about our writing. We encounter resistance, we feel sluggish, we aren’t totally satisfied with the words that found their way through us. And yet, ultimately, even our toughest days have something golden and precious to offer us. So let’s look a little closer:

“Every day is a good day” when we make a decision, in the moment, to give the best we have to our writing, no matter what. When we come to the page with the intention to work with the fullest energy and concentration we’re capable of, then no matter what happens, it’s a good day.

“Every day is a good day” when we surpass ourselves — when somehow, we manage to dig deeper than we thought possible. When we push past that natural wall of resistance that seems to loom above us and find that it crumbles in the face of our desire to create and something wonderful emerges — it’s a good day.

“Every day is a good day” when we start out slow but gather steam as we go. When we find a sudden flash of inspiration in the midst of a writing session that seemed ordinary, but turns out to be extraordinary — a gift from the universe because we’ve shown up and kept going through moments of doubt and discouragement.

“Every day is a good day” when we have a bad day — one where nothing seems to be working — and yet we keep on going, reassured by the certainty that just around the corner there’s a new day waiting for us, bright and shiny, filled with hope and longing that leads to great effort.

“Every day is a good day” when we find that the thorny plot problem we were struggling with in our last writing session suddenly unravels itself before our eyes and we see the way forward — the best, most exciting way to say what we want to say just waiting for us — a quiet, priceless gift.

“Every day is a good day” when we give thanks with a whole heart for the chance to find our way in the world through words and to share our beliefs, hopes, and dreams. 

When good days are good days and even bad days are good days, every day is a good day. Write on!

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“Imagine something you want to write about is a stone you’ve picked up on the beach. Roll the image, the idea, the thought, or the feeling around in your mind. The gestation period is an important part of writing. If you give your thoughts a chance to gather weight and depth, when you do finally sit down to write, the life of the work will have already begun.”
Georgia Heard, Writing Toward Home

Do you remember that lovely children’s story, Stone Soup? Someone puts a stone in a pot of water and starts to boil it. Somehow, everyone around is persuaded to add something to the soup — a few carrots, some mushrooms, some seasoning, and so on, and before you know it, the stone soup has turned into a deliciously savory meal — a pot of plenty big enough to feed everyone who helped to fill it. 

The tale of this soup and how it came to be sprang to mind when I read Georgia Heard’s lovely quote about the gestation period when an idea or project is being born—that delectable, barely detectable period when something starts to bubble up inside is a lot like a stone soup — we need to let it simmer.

But so often, we are on the hunt for a new idea and so hungry for a new project that we grab onto a fragile glimmer of something too quickly. And when we do, it can quickly fade away until we find ourselves left with something stale, instead of something fresh. 

We need to be patient when stirring the pot of inspiration — although this is easier said than done. So why not take Georgia’s advice and let an idea roll around in our minds — let it “gather weight and depth,” instead of rushing to grab it and get it down on paper? 

The rewards of simmering our stone soup can be deliciously satisfying. We can gain a sense of whether or not the idea has “legs” — whether it’s really worth pursuing and developing. We can play with it and let it lead us down fresh new avenues of our imagination. And we can allow it to excite and energize us, so that when we finally do set pen to paper or fingers to keys, we are jazzed and juiced by it.

What a delight as we all write on!

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“For anything worth having one must pay the price; and the price is always work, patience, love, self-sacrifice—no paper currency, no promises to pay, but the gold of real service.” John Burroughs

John Burroughs is a legendary naturalist. His writings still inspire people the world over. He devoted his life to observing nature and inspiring others to realize its beauty and fragility. He lived a simple life and so it’s not surprising that the recipe he offers here for attaining anything worthwhile is simple as well, is it?

Work: It’s one of the keys to accomplishing what we want to in our writing life. But how much time and effort are we willing to devote to it? When we work with joy and eagerness, our work isn’t work, but play—and our pleasure shows up on the page!

Patience: Sometimes it takes a long time for the work we’re doing to bear fruit. We need to keep at it when we hit plateaus and don’t seem to be progressing. We need to keep at it when we feel discouraged. We need to keep at it no matter what—and that takes patience.

Love: When we love what we do, the work is no problem. When we love what we do, our words often take wing and surprise us. When we love what we do, we can handle disappointments and setbacks. When we love what we do, the work itself teaches us what we need to know. 

Self-sacrifice: Here’s a price for achieving a worthy goal that many people aren’t willing to pay. They enjoy being in their comfort zones and aren’t all that eager to sacrifice things they enjoy or want to reach a goal that may seem far off. But we all know self-sacrifice matters.

There you have it: A simple recipe indeed! It has only four ingredients: work, patience, love, self-sacrifice. We can bake this cake! Write on!

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The difference between ORDINARY and EXTRAORDINARY is that little extra.” Jimmy Johnson

“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”
T.S. Eliot

“The difference between ‘try’ and ‘triumph’ is a little ‘umph’” — I can’t remember where I read this quote or who said it, but it’s stayed with me. Why? Mainly because so often I’ve found myself teetering on the edge of something I’m trying to accomplish, but without committing myself to putting in that extra “umph” — that final shot of effort and energy that might push me from try to triumph. Sound familiar?

I’m betting it does, because this seems to be one of the many unsolved mysteries of the human psyche: Our tendency to conjure up self-imposed limits and then act as if they are real. I think it’s this tendency that often stops us from making the shift from ordinary to extraordinary: For some reason, we mistakenly believe that we can give just so much and not an ounce more to whatever we’re doing. 

But you know what? That’s just a story we tell ourselves. It’s just an excuse that we give for not digging a little deeper because it’s easier not to.

Here’s one thing I’ve learned from conjuring up this blog every day: The well is never dry. There’s always a little more left. There’s always another step to take, another idea to explore, another paragraph or page we can write beyond the point where stopping is easy and comfortable.

Surpassing ourselves — that’s the secret sauce of success.

If we can all — I’m right there with you! — just learn to push ourselves a little more at each writing session: to give that “little extra” and risk going out on that limb, then before we know it, we’ll have made a habit of it and going a bit farther will feel as natural as stopping does now. And when we make a habit of going further, then who knows how much further we’ll go? Let’s go for it today, as we all write on!

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Here, to inspire us all as we relax and recharge, is a meditation on the power of the written word from my cherished copy of One Thousand Beautiful Things, which came to me from my beloved mom, Dorothy:

Books

“Consider what you have in the smallest chosen library.
A company of the wisest and wittiest men that could be
picked out of all civil countries, in a thousand years,
have set in best order the results of their learning
and wisdom. The men themselves were hid and
inaccessible, solitary, impatient of interruption,
fenced by etiquette; but the thought which they
did not uncover to their bosom friend is here
written out in transparent words to us, the
strangers of another age.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

« Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do. »

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Knowing and willing are not enough; we must apply and do. How true these words ring and yet how hard it can be to cross the bridge from knowledge and intent to taking action! We’ve all encountered people —  even ourselves — who see amassing knowledge as a form of action and over-research before they write. They gather ever-more information, piling it up until there’s a mountain of it. And then the mountain seems so high that they feel defeated by it and never get started.

And yet, on any given day — today, for instance — we’re intuitively attuned to what we need to do to move forward in our work. Most of the time, it’s no mystery — it’s pretty simple and straightforward. So what stops us from getting on with it? Steven Pressfield has devoted a whole wonderful guide, The War of Art, to resistance in creativity that’s well worth reading. Three stumbling blocks trip me up — and perhaps you as well:

Overcoming inertia: This is huge — this is Resistance in its most blatant form. “It’s the start that stops most people,” according to Dr. Rob Gilbert* and most of us know just how true this is. Simple Rx: Apply “The 15-Minute Rule” — decide to commit just 15 minutes to getting started and often it’s enough to push forward (see post, 15 Minutes).

Overcoming fear: Another huge roadblock and reams have been written on it. It comes in a variety of flavors: fear of failure, fear of success, fear of inadequacy — these are chocolate, vanilla, and strawberry. Simple Rx: “Act as if it’s impossible to fail” — proceed as if success is inevitable. Figure out what you’d do if you knew success was a sure thing — then do it.

Overcoming distraction: Another biggie — and one of the sneakiest and most lethal forms of Resistance. Being a Turner Classic movie buff who’s whiled away many an hour, I can attest to this. Simple Rx: Put yourself on a distraction diet: give yourself strict allotments of time for entertainment and social media. Tough but doable.

OK, let’s start our Apply and Do engines — and all write on!

* Check out Dr. Gilbert’s wonderful Success Hotline (973.743.4690).

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