Mrs. Pumpernickel

In our apartment, the dining room was my father’s office. In it was a big black desk anchored like a ship in a small ocean of papers and books. My dad was a writer back then and that was where he worked. I didn’t know what working was, but I knew it was important, because when he did it, we had to be quiet.

At three or so, I was just tall enough to peek over the edge of his desk and survey its exotic treasures: Pens! Pencils! Paperclips! Pudgy pink erasers! Pads of yellow paper! Writing had to be fun, that much I knew. Because when you were doing it, you could be very messy and no one gave you a hard time about it. In fact, the messier you were, the more you were working and the harder you were writing.

One day, a miracle occurred. My dad handed me one of his beautiful, brand-new yellow legal pads – the golden fleece, it seemed to me – and a shiny yellow pencil with its very own pink eraser on top. “I want you to write a letter to my editor, Mrs. Pumpernickel. Tell her I need more money!” my father said.

No matter that I didn’t know what an editor was or what money was or where to find Mrs. Pumpernickel. No matter that I didn’t know the alphabet or how to read. I was writing! I took my shiny pencil in hand and set to work, covering page after page of my legal pad with bold, confident squiggles. I finished my letter and handed it to my father. He looked over my chicken scratches carefully, nodding as if he understood every word perfectly. I couldn’t have been prouder if I’d won the Pulitzer! Then he fished in a desk drawer, pulled out a gleaming white envelope, and tucked my letter inside. “We need to mail this right away,” my dad said. What a thrill! I was hooked — and I’ve been writing ever since.

Today is my dad Albert’s birthday and this story is written in his honor. He’s one of the biggest reasons I became a wordsmith. Write on!

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Character Counts

“If we like a character, then we want to see her do well and we’re willing to follow her around and invest our time and interest in rooting her on in her struggle. But it’s important we know some essentials about the character so we can get to like her. The trick is to avoid stand-alone description or exposition and to instead show your character in action.” Les Edgerton

One of the most fascinating — and frustrating — aspects of writing a short story, play, or novel is orchestrating the first impression your main character makes on readers or viewers. How you introduce your character sets the stage for the tale you want to tell. I’ve wrestled with this in my novel, so I know how challenging it can be. 

As Les Edgerton summed up the challenge, it involves revealing rather than describing, which can be tricky. The author of several writing guides, here are a few of his tips for making your characters shine:

1. Keep physical description minimal: A character’s physical description doesn’t do much to draw a reader in—it’s the character’s actions, or interests that attract attention. Leaving readers free to imagine your character is a simple but powerful way to hook them.

2. Reveal through action: I think it was Emerson who once said (I’m paraphrasing here): show me what you do and I’ll tell you who you are. What your character does or chooses not to do, speaks volumes. When we learn that his or her behavior is either characteristic or a departure, we begin to understand who they are or think they are or want us to think they are. And it’s all fascinating!

3. Instill depth: A compelling way to draw readers into your story is to intrigue them by giving them a tantalizing glimpse into your main character’s inner life and the dangers ahead. When readers feel they’ve peered into emotional depths, they become attached and engaged—and keep reading!

Wonderful advice to ponder and apply as we all write on!

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Go Easy

“I know some great writers, writers you love, who write beautifully and have made a great deal of money, and not one of them sits down routinely feeling wildly enthusiastic and confident. Not one of them writes elegant first drafts. All right one of them does, but we do not like her very much…Very few writers know what they’re doing until they’ve done it.” Anne Lamott, Bird by Bird

We’ve all been there: We’re expectant. We’re determined. We’ve carved out a juicy chunk of time to write our little hearts out. And we end up staring at a blank or our only output is a few lame paragraphs that we feel like throwing into the wash along with our laundry.

There’s a simple solution for this if it’s happening to you right now or you think it might happen some time soon and you’re dreading it: Give yourself permission to write badly.

Go easy on yourself!

That’s right! Take a leaf from Annie Lamott’s wonderful guide, Bird by Bird, and embrace her wise and generous advice: Lower your standards. Don’t go for an “elegant first draft” or even an elegant set of words or paragraphs. Just start writing, holding on to the belief that you’ll figure out what you’re doing as you go along.

Here’s another tip: Get yourself a notebook — nothing fancy — and write longhand. Somehow this makes the whole act of writing seem more playful, more casual, less fraught with expectation and self-judgment. Just sit, pen or pencil in hand, and scribble away. I find colorful inks and cheerful pencils help.

Give yourself a week or more of writing sessions like this. Look back over what you’ve written the day before if you want to — or don’t bother; just keep writing. At some point, take stock of what flowed from your mind and pen. More than likely you’ll be surprised. There will be a sentence or phrase here and there that you really love — that provokes and challenges you. You may even find whole paragraphs that hold the seeds of something exciting: a story perhaps, or a way of describing a character that was eluding you.

If you’re feeling playful, you can even pluck three words from the ether and start writing around them. If you keep going, chances are you’ll arrive at something worth salvaging and exploring. 

There’s already so much pressure out there: to produce, to publish, to prosper, to prioritize, to prance and preen in print. Don’t know where all those “P’s” came from, but they just popped out. You get the point. All this performing can be exhausting: It can rob us of the fun and joy of practicing our craft. If all this is getting to you, why not take the pressure off for a while? Just “freelax” as my son Alex used to say. Yes, let’s all just “freelax” and then write on!

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Word Power

An inspiring story about the power of words:

One wintry day, eight-year-old Myles Eckert and his mom Tiffany were hurrying Across a parking lot to a restaurant in their hometown of Waterville, Ohio. Myles glanced down and saw a $20 bill. Since there was no one around to return it to, his mom said, “I guess it’s your lucky day,” and let him keep it.

Inside the restaurant, Myles considered buying a video game, but then he saw a soldier and his wife sitting nearby. He asked for a piece of paper and wrote this note:

Dear Soldier,

My dad was a soldier. He’s in heaven now. I found this $20 In
the parking lot. We like to pay it forward in my family. It’s
your lucky day! Thank you for your service.

Myles Eckert 

Myles never had the chance to know his dad: Army Sgt. Andy Eckert. was killed in Iraq when Myles was only a few weeks old. But because every soldier reminds him of his dad, he decided to say thank you and “pay forward” his windfall to Lt. Col. Frank Dailey, an Ohio National Guardsman. Lt. Col. Dailey responded with a heartfelt, “Thank you. This is an honor!” and donated the money Myles gave him to charity. He was so touched by the note from Myles that he told his daughter, who shared the story on Facebook. Soon Myles was receiving $20 from strangers.

When he had a total of 50 $20 bills, he asked his mom to donate the money to Snowball Express, a charity that helps kids who’ve lost a parent in the line of duty. Soon, word of this donation made the local and national news and inspired more contributions, including a $1 million grant from a corporation. In the end, Myles and his thank-you note generated an incredible $1.8 million in support for the Snowball Express. 

Lt. Col. Dailey, became close to both Myles and his mom. He continued to be inspired by the words Myles wrote long after and once said, “I look at his note every day, and it gives my life direction.”

A piece of paper, a pen or pencil, a handful of simple, heartfelt words: This is all it takes for magic to happen. The words we write or say — or leave unwritten or unsaid — matter. Write on!

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Something Wonderful

As we launch into a bright, shiny new 12 months, something to ponder:

“New Year’s is the first page of a 365-page book: Write a good one!” Brad Paisley\

And a lovely gem from the divine, divining Emily Dickinson:

“We never know how high we are
Till we are called to rise;
And then, if we are true to plan,
Our statures touch the skies.

The heroism we recite
Would be a daily thing,
Did not ourselves the cubits warp
For fear to be a king.”

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Happy 2026!

As we launch into the New Year, lovely words to guide our way:

Barter
by Sara Teasdale

Life has loveliness to sell,
All beautiful and splendid things,
Blue waves whitened on a cliff,
Soaring fire that sways and sings
And children’s faces looking up
Holding wonder like a cup.

Life has loveliness to sell,
Music like a curve of gold,
Scent of pine trees in the rain,
Eyes that love you, arms that hold,
And for your spirit’s still delight,
Holy thoughts that star the night.

Spend all you have for loveliness,
Buy it and never count the cost;
For one white singing hour of peace
Count many a year of strife well lost.
And for a breath of ecstasy
Give all you have been, or could be.

May the coming year bring you every blessing and joy — and
wild and wonderful success in your work. Write on!

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Wondrous Year

A bouquet of lovely thoughts for the New Year:

“We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called ‘Opportunity’ and its first chapter is New Year’s Day.” Edith Lovejoy Pierce, twentieth-century poet

“And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been.” Rainer Maria Rilke

“Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, whispering,’It will be happier.’” Alfred Lord Tennyson

“Take a leap of faith and begin this wondrous new year by believing. Believe in yourself. And believe that there is a loving Source — a Sower of Dreams — just waiting to be asked to help you make your dreams come true.” Sarah Breathnach

“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re doing something. Neil Gaiman

“Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties”.
Helen Keller

“Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson

 May the coming year bring you every blessing and joy — and
wild and wonderful success in your work. Write on!

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Helping Hearts

“Words of encouragement fan the sparks of genius into the flame of achievement. Legend tells us that Lincoln’s dying mother called her small son to her bedside and whispered, ‘Be somebody, Abe!’”
Wilfred Peterson, The Art of Living Treasure Chest

Writing isn’t the easiest game in the world — no wonder it’s easy to become discouraged about the progress you’re not making or the wrong turn your story has taken. When this happens, what you say to yourself and what others say to you about where you are can make a huge difference in how and whether you push on or fold your tent. 

Here’s what we all need to keep going: encouragement counselors!

These are the people in your life whose helping hearts you can count on to rev you up and keep you going. These are not mindless cheerleaders, but mindful champions of your writing: They understand how hard you work and how much your work means to you.

They may not know the nuts and bolts of the obstacles you’re facing — internal or external — and they don’t really need to. All they need to do is to believe in you. By this simple yet life-changing act, they can renew your ability to believe in yourself. 

So, when you hit a snag or feel muddled or unequal to the task before you, don’t slip into the Slough of Despond and get bogged down in it. That’s just a waste of time and energy. Instead, reach for the phone or send an email to one of your encouragement counselors and let them give you a boost. And make sure you let them know that you’ll do the same for them the next time they need it.

And never forget that you are the best, most effective encouragement counselor you have on tap. If you can keep your self-talk positive even when you hit a roadblock, then you can pull yourself out of a tight spot hand over hand without even having to call in the troops. Why beat yourself up when you can just as easily boost yourself up? 

Why not have a stuck-in-the-mud strategy you can put into play as soon as you see you’re getting off track? It can be as simple as saying to yourself, “I’ve got everything I need already inside me” and continuing to write. Or, if you can’t find just the right phrase, saying “It will come to me,” and continuing to write. Or “The right words are waiting for me,” and continuing to write. 

So often, we let ourselves get bogged down by doubt and confusion when we could easily write our way out of them and into a stunning sentence and a thrilling paragraph. What we need is waiting for us, clamoring to be heard. All we have to do is choose to move forward instead of standing still as we all write on!

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Motivating Motto

« It is a law of the universe: Assistance must always be given to
those who request it. » Oprah Winfrey

Frank Somma is a highly successful salesman, a motivational speaker, and a good friend of my good friend and mentor, Dr. Rob Gilbert (check out Rob’s Success Hotline: 973.743.4690). Frank shares inspiring, insights on his site: FrankSomma.com. For each new year, Frank has created a new motto that is a touchstone for the next 12 months.

What a wonderful motivational tool! Frank’s idea has inspired me to ponder a personal writing motto for this upcoming year — an intention that I want to keep front and center throughout 2026

Here’s the touchstone phrase I came up for myself for one year: A Passion for Completion.  This year, I thinking of a new motto—Magical Manifestation. I love this, because it reminds me that words have power and we can use them to envision the future we want to create. I’m going to write this on a card and where I’ll see it every day.

I’ve found that setting an intention, whether it’s for a meditation session or a writing session, can be very powerful: It’s amazing how a simple tool like this can help focus and galvanize you. And, given the power of words, putting your intention in writing gives it greater strength: To me, it’s a way of asking the universe for assistance.

How about you? Why not come up with a writing motto of your own — one that will inspire and motivate you to achieve your major goal over the next 12 months and put it where you’ll see it every day—on your computer, your desk, your iPhone, in your wallet?

Or here’s a simpler idea: just pick one word that inspires you. Creativity, Abundance, Joy — whatever quality you want to bring to your writing over the next year—sum it up in a single word and use it as your personal touchstone.

If you think of a word or motto and want to share it, I’d love to hear from you. Write on!

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Little Tree

A wish for us all, this season of hope and holiday renewal:

Little Tree

John Greenleaf Whittier

Little silent Christmas tree
You are so little
You are more like a flower

Who found you in the green forest
And were you very sorry to come away?
See I will comfort you.
Because you smell so sweetly

I will kiss your cool bark
And hug you safe and tight
Just as your mother would
Only don’t be afraid.

Look the spangles
That sleep all year in the dark box
Dreaming of being taken out and allowed to shine
The balls the red and gold the fluffy threads

Put up your little arms
And I will give them all to you to hold
Every finger shall have its ring
And there won’t be a single place dark or unhappy

When you are quite dressed
You’ll stand in the window for everyone to see
And how they’ll stare
Oh but you will be very proud

And my little sister and I will take hands
And looking at our beautiful tree
We’ll dance and sing.
E.E. Cummings

Somehow not only for Christmas
But all the long year through,
The joy that you give to others
Is the joy that comes back to you.

And the more you spend in blessing
The poor and lonely and sad,
The more of your heart’s possessing
Returns to make you glad.

May peace and joy be yours, now and always. Write on.

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